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Look, ladies, let your absence and you unavailability do all your dirty work for you. Let me tell you the secret to making any man obsessed with you. This is the secret to making him love you, in fact, this is the secret to making anybody obsessed with you. This is based on simple psychology, simple marketing, simple branding: your absence and your silence have more power than your actions and your words. Your silence and your absence will do all of your dirty work for you as long as you don't have that needy-psycho energy.
Rather than complaining to him to see you, what you got to do is just not see him and be busier. Rather than complaining to him because he doesn't text you, you just go silent. Rather than talking a lot, you practice talking less and allowing your face to communicate what you want to say. Slow everything down and give people space to miss you. You can't be so available.
When you like a guy, you become ultra available and there's nothing wrong with that but initially, be a little difficult to get. If you're noticing that the guy is getting too comfortable, that's when you pull away a little bit or better yet, begin to anticipate when he's gonna pull away before he does. When things are really really great, pull away a little bit just for precautionary measures.
Be a little distant, be a little busy. It's not to manipulate him, it's to do him a favor. Be the orchestrator and give him a little distance, let him miss you a little bit. Make him come to you and be receptive when he comes to you.
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